Moncton Wedding

Now, I’m the first to admit that I’m not a wedding expert, however, there are certain things that I have witness the need for first hand – one of those things being a Bridal Emergency Kit. What is a Bridal Emergency Kit? Simple – it can be anything, but it should be everything a bride (or groom!) needs to help get through the day.  Whether you are a Maid of Honour, Best Man, Bride or Groom, you should really discuss the need for this with those involved and determine what you should have in your kit should any sticky situation arise.

Ideas for things to include in the kit for the bride and attendants:

Beauty
- Make-up for touch ups
- Hair Spray
- Comb and brush
- Nail file & emery boards
- Nail clippers
- Deodorant

Health & Wellness
- Self-adhesive bandages and/or a small first aid kit
- Visine eye drops
- Pre-moistened towelettes
- Baby wipes (also good for removing grease stains)
- Over-the-counter pain reliever (ibuprophen, Tylenol)
- Antacids
- Pepto-Bismol
- Allergy medication
- Tampons & sanitary pads
- Kleenex

Clothing Emergencies
- Mini-sewing kit  (including threads in the colour(s) of the suits and dresses)
- Tide-to-go pen and/or Shout wipes, etc.
- Clear nail polish (to fix stocking runs)
- Extra panty hosiery
- Safety pins (varying sizes)
- Crazy glue / Superglue
- Double sided tape
- White chalk

Miscellaneous
- Breath Mints
- Toothpicks
- Stress ball
- Bottled water
- Snacks
- Detailed map to wedding location, picture location, reception hall

Ideas for things to include in the kit for the groom and attendants:

Beauty
-  Cologne, trial size (same kind as groom is wearing)
-  Razor
-  Shaving cream
-  Deodorant
- Nail Clippers

Health & Wellness
- Self-adhesive bandages and/or a small first aid kit
- Visine eye drops
- Pre-moistened towelettes
- Over-the-counter pain reliever (ibuprophen, Tylenol)
- Antacids
- Pepto-Bismol
- Allergy medicatio
- Kleenex

Clothing Emergencies
- Mini-sewing kit  (including threads in the colour(s) of the suits)
- Tide-to-go pen and/or wipes , or something similar
- Extra socks
- Safety pins (varying sizes)
- Boutonniere pins
- Crazy glue / Superglue
- Double sided tape

Miscellaneous
- Breath Mints
- Toothpicks
- Stress ball
- Bottled water
- Snacks
- Detailed map to wedding location, picture location, reception hall

One thing that I have noticed as a bride is that in larger cities it is very easy to find information on the web about any businesses in that area; however, for Moncton there is no such option. It was nearly impossible to find one concise list of rental halls, ceremony locations, ideas for places to have pictures taken, DJ’s, photographers and so many more.

I am currently working on compiling a list of service providers related to the wedding field that offer services in and around the Greater Moncton area. If you offer such a service please contact info@monctonwedding.com with the following information:

- Business Name
- Type of Business
- Contact Person
- Address, Phone Number
- Brief Description of Services

I’ve been to three weddings so far in the past few months, and my biggest complaint by far is this: guests who bring children who cause a scene, especially during the ceremony. This is not including those IN the wedding party, of course!

Don’t get me wrong, my career is based completely off children as I am an Early Childhood Educator by day and love what I do. That said, I firmly believe there is a certain etiquette that should be followed by guests who opt to bring their when the Bride and Groom have given the okay for children to come.

GUESTS should consider before bringing their child to ANY wedding:

1)    Make 110% sure that the Bride and Groom have given their okay for your child to attend, and that this “Ok” is not out of any feeling of obligation due to their relation to you or your child.

2)    As a parent, you should know your child and their behavior better than anyone else so please, PLEASE, consider this: are you completely sure your child will not cause a disruption during the wedding ceremony? If there is even the slightest possibility due to the age, temperament, etc. of your child – find a babysitter!

3)    Remember to bring something that can quietly entertain your child if needed: a video game system (volume off!), a favourite book or toy. For younger children a new, prized toy works wonders to keep them occupied for the duration of the ceremony. A bag of toys to tote around and have on hand at the reception is also another option.

4)    Keep in mind some reception halls have a limit on how late children are permitted to stay – even those in the Bridal Party. Never keep a child there past the time permitted.

5)    The most important thing to remember is that this is a very, very important day for the Bride and Groom. If you child begins to cause a disruption or scene please quickly and quietly remove your child from the hall to a location that is not going to cause any further disruption for the couple. Keep your child there until you are completely sure they have calmed down and are able to return, otherwise remain there until the end of the ceremony and then rejoin the festivities at the reception.

Here are some things the BRIDE and GROOM should consider before deciding whether or not to include children on their wedding day, and how to include those children:

1)    This is your special day, no matter your decision those who love you and care about you will understand and respect your choices. It is YOUR wedding, no one else’s.

2)    Keep in mind that despite the best efforts of parents, children may become a distraction or disruption, especially during the ceremony. If this will upset you in any way, you should really consider limiting children to the closest of relatives, or none at all.

3)    Make sure your reception hall permits children, and when/if children must leave by. Some halls have restrictions on when children are allowed to be present (ex. only until 10pm.)

4)   If you do decide to have children as a part of your bridal party be prepared for the unexpected, and certainly be prepared for the possibility of a meltdown and/or their inability to follow your request and directions to a “T”.

5)   If you feel finding babysitters would be too costly/hard for your guests, and really want them to attend child-free, consider finding one or two adults or teenagers who you know and trust, that aren’t necessarily being invited to the wedding or who would not mind missing the ceremony and have them run a mini-childcare service for you. One possibility is if there is a room at the hall you can use so that children can re-join for the reception. Or at someone’s home where the children can enjoy a slumber party for the evening, complete with a few special movies and treats. If you opt for this though, keep in mind there is a limit to how many children one person can safely care for. No more than 2-3 infants, 5 toddlers or 6-8 preschool/school aged children per person. A mixed aged grouping should be limited to no more than 6 children per person. And make sure they have LOTS of toys, books and/or movies to keep them entertained.  Remember to compensate these people for their time and efforts!

In the end though, no matter what your choice is as the Bride & Groom, please enjoy your special day! As a guest, cherish the fact that the Bride & Groom have chosen you especially to be a part of their day, whether or not they you’re your child(ren) present.

-         K

Nothing says emotion like mascara streaked cheeks. For your wedding day I recommend selecting your favorite mascara in a “waterproof” formula. If you’re trying something new it is a good idea to take it out on a couple test runs ahead of time to make sure it works well for you and has staying power.

Here are some tips & tricks to make sure you properly apply your mascara:

1) Start with the base of your lashes. Wiggle the wand across the entire length of the base of your lashes, doing so helps gives the illusion of overall length to your lashes and the wiggling is important because it will help you separate your lashes.

2) Continue wiggling the mascara wand as you pull it up through your lashes.

3) Close your eyes for one final sweep of the mascara wand on top of your lashes to help remove any remaining clumps.

And there you have it in three easy steps – flawless mascara application!

Here’s some information about a fantastic tent site in Moncton, NB. A friend just had a phenomenal wedding there. Granted she deserves the credit for all the planning and preparation; however, the grounds were immaculate and well arranged. Not only was there enough room in and around the main tent, she was also able to bring in two additional tents to serve her goals and ideas for her wedding. If you’re looking for a great outside venue for your wedding in this area it certainly is worth checking out.

Here’s the information:

They offer services for weddings, receptions, conventions, banquets, music festivals, anniversary and family reunions – just to name a few!

They have a gorgeous location in the Moncton area boasting a large “permanent” tent set on pebbled concrete. The site is wonderful rain or shine.

Call to book an appointment for a viewing.

Solomon Gardens
1833 Salisbury Rd. Moncton
contact – 506-871-5126

• The most important thing to consider when picking a venue is your overall budget. The more money in your overall budget, the more money you can devote to your venue.
• The type of ceremony you and your partner want is also a significant factor to keep in mind. If you want a formal church wedding, low key backyard barbeque, or something in between – knowing what you want is the key in choosing the perfect location.
• Another important thing to consider is the location of the venue. How close to home would you like your wedding to be? Does it matter if you need to drive ten, fifteen or twenty minutes?
• Having a rough idea of your overall guest list is essential for choosing a venue. You don’t need a venue for 400 if your guest list is for 100, and vice versa. For a small gathering, a modest sized hall is sufficient, but for larger groups you would require a large hall or house.
• There are many types of places you can opt for. You can either go for a community center, university facility, park, banquet hall, farm house or even your own home.
• Generally, wedding venues are allotted for about 6 to 7 hours, after which extra charges are paid. A friend or relatives home allows for slightly more flexibility.

Choosing a venue for your wedding ceremony and/or reception can be a fun and exciting time. There are some things to take make sure you ask though before you settle on one venue over another.

Read over these questions before you go for your meeting, make sure you consider each one and it’s importance to you; don’t forget to add any other questions that may come to mind.

• What is the capacity for the room? Does the headcount include wedding professionals at the event (DJ, photographers, etc.)?
• Do they have an in-house caterer, and do you like that food? (While an in-house caterer can be easier and cheaper, sometimes the food is not as beautiful as the room. So make sure you taste it!) Do they have a limitation on which outside caterers you can use?
• Do they have adequate coat check (or coat hooks) and bathroom facilities?
• Do you provide linens, tables, chairs, china, glassware, silverware, serving accessories, etc.?
• Is the wedding venue wheelchair accessible? If not, are there many stairs to climb? How close is the parking to the ceremony and reception rooms?
• What’s the cancellation policy? What is the last day to cancel?
• Is there a payment schedule? What kind of deposit is required?
• Who is responsible for set up and clean up of the décor? If us, when will we be able to get in to do that?
• Are there any hidden costs? (Before you sign the contract, read it carefully.) Are there any additional costs — cleaning fees, insurance-fee waivers, set up fees, taxes etc.? (make sure you know exactly what they cover and get it in writing)
• What are the overtime charges? At what time will my guest have to leave the facility?
• Do they have a liquor license?
• Will they allow you to bring your own liquor? (This is usually cheaper, even with the usual corkage fee- what is the corkage fee?) Will there be an open bar, cash bar, or limited bar?
• Is there room in the wedding venue for a band and/or dancing?
• Does the wedding venue already own a sound system with adequate speakers or will that need to be rented?
• Is there a space for the bride and groom to change and/or relax?
• Where will you take photographs? Is there a park nearby, or do the coordinators have recommended spots on the grounds?
• Who will be supervising and troubleshooting before the day of your wedding? Who will be supervising and troubleshooting on the day of your wedding? Can you meet them now?
• Where can your guests park? Are there extra fees for parking?
• Is the wedding venue convenient to public transportation, especially in big cities? How long will it take your guests to get there?
• Especially in museums or private clubs, are there limitations on decorations? Do they limit food and drinks to only certain areas of the wedding venue?
• Are candles or other open flames allowed?
• What does the venues decor look like? Does it fit your style and wedding colors? Will you have to spend a lot of money on flowers and decorations to make it beautiful?
• If it is an outdoor location, do they have any backup plans for rain or other inclement weather? If not, is there a place that you can put up a tent?
• Are there rooms where the bride/bridesmaids can do their final preparation and “hide” before the wedding?

When Looking at Separate Wedding Reception Venues and Ceremony Locations

-          How far is it from one location to the other?

-          Do the two places have the same level of formality and a coordinating style?

-          Do they both accommodate about the same number of guests?

When Looking for Wedding Venues for Both Ceremony and Reception

-          Do they have enough tables and chairs for the ceremony, or will they need to be rented?

-          Does the wedding venue have an entirely separate area for the ceremony or will they have to change over the same room while guests are at a cocktail hour?

-          How long does it typically take for the staff to change over the room?

This site is currently being developed as a resource for women and men in Moncton, New Brunswick. Over time we will gradually expand on our content. If you have any suggestions or recommendations that you would like to pass along please feel free to do so. If you are a vendor in an industry related to weddings and would like to purchase add space or be featured on the site, please contact us as well.

Thanks for stopping by and please check back soon for more updated content.

- K

Dress and Suit Boutiques/Alterations & Dressmaking Services located in and around the Greater Moncton Area.
*Please note that while a wedding dress or suit provider service may be listed here Moncton Wedding has no affiliation with them and/or does not make any claims regarding the quality of their work. wedding dress or suit provider services are listed in no particular order.

ACS Formals
830 Coverdale Road, Riverview, NB
(506) 386-3889

Little Darlings Bridal & Formal Wear
593 Mountain Road, Moncton, NB
(506) 852-2754

Betty Rubin
Highfield Square, Moncton, NB
(506) 382-0050

Dawn-Ann’s Dress Design & Alterations
Moncton, NB
(506) 852-4480

Expresso Tuxedo
722 Avenue Acadie, Dieppe, NB
(506) 857-2801 ‎

Bridal Vision
722 Avenue Acadie, Dieppe, NB
(506) 857-8400 ‎

Boutique Alteration Boutik
722C Avenue Acadie, Dieppe, NB
(506) 854-1742 ‎

Rose’s Alteration Shop
29 Second Avenue, Moncton, NB
(506) 387-8008

Loulou’s Wedding Gallery
1280 Route 933, Haute-Aboujagane, NB
(506) 532-3738

Boutique De Mariage
18 Rue De L’Eglise, Bouctouche, NB
(506) 743-6666

Options abound for engaged couples to decide how to proceed with their stationary needs. Whether you want to do a simple save-the-date with a straightforward invitation to follow, or want a more elegant card, with response cards included, and  a program for the ceremony. Many, many options are available to you.

If you would like to DIY the two best bets for decent supplies are:

Michaels Arts & Crafts
35 Plaza Boulevard, Moncton
(506) 382-8800

Wal-Mart
Trinity Drive, Moncton, NB (506) 854-7394
Champlain Place, Dieppe, NB (506) 857-2500

If you would rather have a local company do the heavy lifting in terms of preparing your invitations:

Staples Business Depot
233 Main Street, Moncton, NB E1C 1B8 (506) 860-6802 ‎
125 Trinity Drive, Moncton, NB E1G 2J7 (506) 863-1400 ‎

The other alternative it to use a web-based service to print and mail you the stationary you desire, such as:

www.vistaprints.ca